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L. I. P. - Let’s Celebrate the Living

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Photo credit: pixabay@pexels Have you ever come across the acronym LIP ? If not, keep reading—I’d love to introduce you to this beautiful concept. As I take a bird’s-eye view of the world, a strange pattern emerges—one that leaves me wondering: When are we humans, as a species and a society, going to grow up? You often see an outpouring of grief when someone passes away—social media flooded with RIP messages, heartfelt tributes, and stories of how they touched lives. These messages may comfort grieving relatives and those left behind, but the person they are meant for is no longer here to read them. Ever wonder where all this warmth was when they were alive? As we moved from close-knit families to isolated satellite units, our community bonds weakened. Once, we knew our neighbours, shared joys and struggles, and looked out for one another. Today, we barely know who lives next door, let alone what they believe or battle in silence. Human connection, once instinctive, now feels like an...

Life, Loss, and the Lessons We Never Wanted

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  Image: Lukas@pexels Nancy Stephan wrote in her memoir, “ There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, people we can’t live without but have to let go.” This powerful truth resonates deeply, touching each of us at different points in life. While we may grasp it intellectually, experiencing it firsthand is an entirely different matter. There is always a gap between knowing and truly internalizing. As the Bard put it, if practice were as easy as knowing what to do, then “chapels would be churches and poor men’s houses, princes' palaces.” The real struggle lies not in understanding life’s truths but in learning to live with them. Hardship, loss, and unfulfilled expectations can leave us questioning everything. Why this? Why now? Why me? We search for answers, sometimes directing our frustration at a higher power, other times merely shouting into the void. But questioning, while natural, seldom brings resolution....

Life as a Canvas: Lessons from Sir Ken Robinson

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Photo by Victor Freitas @pexels Most of us couldn’t have foreseen the life we’re living today when we were kids. We envisioned ourselves as astronauts, artists, explorers, or inventors, blissfully unaware of the twists and turns life would inevitably take. As we grew, those dreams began to shift, adapting to the opportunities we encountered and the talents we discovered within ourselves. But dreams alone weren’t enough. Our journey depended on our willingness to seize those opportunities, take risks, and navigate setbacks—sometimes with courage, sometimes with doubt, but always with the hope of creating something meaningful. “Life has never been a fixed blueprint handed to us; it’s an ever-evolving canvas, as unique as the fingerprints of the person creating it.” As Sir Ken put it, what makes life extraordinary is its threefold nature: it is deeply personal, brimming with creative potential, and inherently organic. We often begin with a general sense of direction, shaped by family, soc...

When Frustration Turns to Fury: The Creator's Struggle in a Digital World

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  Photo credit: Rebaz Geo@pexels I recently took a nostalgic dive into my blog archives, revisiting posts I'd written as far back as 2008. In those early, more prolific days, I was fortunate to cultivate a loyal readership. We formed a close-knit community, eagerly anticipating each other’s posts and sharing glimpses of our lives. Occasionally, others with a more transactional “you scratch my back, I scratch yours” mindset would join in, and we’d reciprocate. But neither of these interactions ever propelled our posts beyond a niche audience—virality, after all, is the domain of algorithms. As I pondered the evolution of content creation, an incident from April 2018 came to mind—a tragic shooting at YouTube’s headquarters in San Bruno, California. The perpetrator, an aggrieved content creator, believed that YouTube’s algorithms were unfairly suppressing her work. While her actions were indefensible, her frustrations echoed a sentiment many creators have felt: the struggle against an...

2025 - The Passionpreneur's Journey

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  Photo Credit: ZukimanMohamad@pexels Some people savor what they do, finding joy in each task. Others endure their work, living for the weekend. It’s easy to get stuck in a cycle, trapped by the gravitational pull of present circumstances. But as AA Milne so beautifully phrased it through Winnie the Pooh: “I always get to where I’m going by walking away from where I’ve been.” In 2024, I stumbled upon a new word: Passionpreneur. What’s a passionpreneur, you ask? The dictionary defines it as someone who discovers their passion, transforms it into a profitable business, and in doing so, positively impacts others' lives. Inspiring, isn’t it? Yet, embarking on such a journey isn’t always simple. Like a spacecraft breaking free from Earth’s gravity, stepping into a new realm requires its own form of escape velocity . This metaphorical velocity propels us away from unhappiness, self-doubt, and the fear of the unknown. So, how does one generate this escape velocity? Experts suggest a comb...

Believe in Yourself: The Key to Life's Autumn

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  Photo credit: Shivansh Sharma@pexels As we approach the autumn of life, what do we find waiting for us? A time of decline, or a season of transformation and growth? The "autumn of life" offers a unique moment to pause, reflect, and embrace the wisdom we’ve gathered along life’s journey. In early civilizations of the Indian subcontinent, life was distinctly divided into Chatur Ashramas , or the four stages of life: Brahmacharya (celibacy): A period dedicated to acquiring knowledge. Grihastha (married life): Focused on family responsibilities and building a livelihood. Vanaprastha (retired life): A retreat to the forest, leaving household duties behind. Sannyasa (renunciation): A life of asceticism and spiritual pursuit. These stages reflect the natural rhythm of life, with the latter two—Vanaprastha and Sannyasa—mirroring the reflective phase of autumn. The Vanaprastha phase, akin to this metaphorical autumn, signaled a shift in priorities and purpose. Individuals handed...

Finding Purpose: A New Year’s Reflection for a Meaningful Life

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  Photo curtsey: Yunus Tug@ Pexels Many years ago, I received some wonderful advice that has guided me, albeit imperfectly, in shaping my life. Today, as we approach 2025, I feel inspired to share it with the hope that it might encourage others to adopt these thoughts in their own journey. “Finding your purpose in life can be transformative. It’s not just about work, routines, or chasing success—it’s about discovering what truly makes you come alive and finding ways to share that with the world. Maybe it’s helping others, inspiring change, exploring new cultures, or simply brightening someone’s day with a kind gesture. Life isn’t just about avoiding the wrong path; it’s about choosing the right one and walking it with intention. Each of us has something unique to contribute, no matter how small it might seem. Purpose doesn’t have to be a grand, all-encompassing idea. It’s in the small moments, the acts of kindness, and the courage to strive for something more. When you lean into wh...