Tid Bit from My Diary

  Photo by Kris Møklebust: Link Kenny Rogers once sang, “Sometimes you have to fight if you’re a man.” But let’s be honest—war doesn’t decide who’s right; it only decides who’s left once the dust settles. People lose their limbs, homes, and sense of safety—often forever. Even those who think they’ve won carry scars that never heal. History tells the same story again and again. When two sides clash—whether nations, communities, or individuals—what gets recorded are the statistics of death: how many killed, how many wounded, how many displaced. But these numbers never tell the whole truth. When a report says, “1 person killed,” that “one” represents a much bigger loss—it’s just the tip of the iceberg. What we don't see are the deeper wounds—the wife who lost her husband, the parents who lost their child, the children growing up without a parent. These unseen faces never make it to the headlines, yet they carry the heaviest weight. When conflict arises, not everyone who seems to suppo...

Being consistently good is non-negotiable. It builds trust, hones skills, and shapes character. Daily effort — steady, reliable, sincere — lays the foundation for meaningful progress and long-term fulfilment. Being the best , however, is different. It often demands extraordinary risks, bold leaps, and a willingness to embrace uncertainty. Sometimes, it’s better to forgo a chance than to risk something permanent through rashness . "Best" is a superlative that triggers ego — personal or collective — and ego can make things messy. Being good, on the other hand, is democratic. If ten or a hundred people start being good, it doesn’t diminish those already doing well. But being the “best” always involves comparison and competition. The real lesson: stay consistent, cultivate discipline, and keep growing. Extraordinary success may require audacity, but if it doesn’t come, your steady path still leads to meaningful achievement. Greatness is rooted in consistency; daring risks may occ...